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x-or-y-autistic:

serendipitous-assembly:

To other autistic people: what was/is your favorite thing to do at a playground?

SWINGS

Swings! Or climbing as high as I could and just staying there

babylonsabby:

twodotsknowwhy:

gilganyan-24:

makeupbyemko:

alma-ren:

sodomymcscurvylegs:

vaderwan:

disney: mulan live action movie

me:

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disney:

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The change from Li Shang is concerning, and not only because it’s erasing a very distinctly bisexual character. Forget sexuality: even if you prefer a more platonic interpretation (which I don’t), Li Shang clearly respects, admires, and likes Mulan as Ping and as a person. He loves her as a friend long before he loves her as a woman, girlfriend, or wife. The entire point of the movie is that Li Shang loves Mulan as a person (platonically, romantically, either way), not just as a potential mate. The entire point of the entire ending is that people do not award women the same respect offered to men. (Mushu: “Huh? You’re a girl now, remember?”) The entire point of the finale is that Shang and Ping’s friends do give Mulan the same respect as a woman, because her gender doesn’t matter: she is still the same person with the same good strategic sense, and they’ll trust her whether she’s wearing armor or a dress.

If this “Chen Honghui” hates Mulan/Ping until he finds out that she is a woman, that isn’t just erasing Shang’s bisexuality: it’s also sexualizing Mulan and stripping her of all her agency and accomplishment. In this version, Mulan isn’t worthy of respect as a person. She is only worth admiring as a woman. He can’t like her as a warrior, as a strategist, as a friend, as a person; he can only like her as a woman. Let me rephrase this: Instead of giving Mulan a chance to earn the same respect Chen offers to all his other warriors, he’s only going to appreciate her once he sees her as a woman. As an “approved” sexual object. ONLY THEN is it worth noticing her or granting her basic human decency and respect. “Something like love,” as the description tells us, clearly has nothing to do with any of her personality and everything to do with genitalia. Even if he was completely and entirely straight, we should see that he’s at least befriending Mulan/Ping before the Gender Reveal. Straight guys can still recognize another man’s good qualities and appreciate them for what they are. If Ping isn’t even a friend before “he” becomes Mulan, then this isn’t “something like love;” it’s just lust and objectification, pure and simple. The “rivalry” is also bullshit. The fact that “rivalry” can change so quickly into “something like love” means only that for Chen, a set of imaginary genitalia is all it takes to completely shift his perspective on someone from “worthy of competition” to “worthy of sex.” What, so he’s just going to abandon the rivalry now that she’s a woman? Oh - because she’s only a woman. He doesn’t have to compete with her anymore, because that’s not what you do with women. A rivalry would imply that she’s still a man, and at least he can view a rival as a decent warrior; but now, she can be comfortably reduced to Sex Appeal.

Also… what about that personality? “Cocky?” A “mean, bullying streak”? Thinks of Mulan as “his chief rival?” Are you going to strip the male lead of EVERY shred of decency? Li Shang isn’t a bully: he is a soldier who pushes his men (and woman) to excel, because this is wartime and that’s the only way to survive. He genuinely cares about them and shows real pride when they show signs of improvement. He doesn’t see them as rivals; he sees them as friends for whom he is responsible. Sure, he doesn’t like Ping at first, but that’s got nothing to do with gender and more to do with the fact that Ping’s initial behavior is so inflammatory. (Dodges commander’s questions; starts fights in the rice line; holds the other soldiers back in training; cheats on assignments, even if that’s the result of Mushu’s intervention). Once Ping proves himself as a person and as a warrior, Shang doesn’t hesitate to reward Ping with all the admiration Ping deserves. 

Disney is so concerned about removing every hint of bisexuality from its movies, it’s also utterly destroyed any decency they could have in a heterosexual romance. In their attempts to make everything nice and straight and cisgendered, they’re bending their characters WAY out of whack. 

They’re taking Mulan - originally a woman who denies gender boundaries to prove that gender doesn’t matter to personal worth - and they’re turning her into a person who can’t earn respect,honor, or even the admiration of her fellow soldiers until she puts on a dress and can be seen, not as a warrior or as a person but as an object of desire. 

And they’re taking Shang - originally a man who cares about his fellow soldiers and who respects Mulan regardless of her gender presentation - and turned him into a cocky asshole who only cares about himself and is only able to appreciate Mulan when she is female, and even then, only because he’d like to have some sex.

What the fuck Disney. What. The. Fuck

Reblogging this here as well because this pisses me off.

All of this, but also, let’s stop teaching young girls that it’s ok to be with boys who are assholes to you?

When the animated film is more progressive than the live action.

aisandetsarepeopletoo:

bivirgil:

sorry-you-cant-handle-it:

pussysoupforthesoul:

“omg calling an underaged character gay or lesbian is really gross n inappropriate!! they’re a child?? no one should be projecting sexualities onto kids!”

animators:

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This just in: kissing is not sex. News at 11.

Neither is gay people existing u weirdo

“Think about the wide range of activities that make up our romantic lives. When we talk about heterosexuality, we talk about that full range. But when we talk about homosexuality, we focus narrowly on the sex, and then we get this skewed picture where straight people have relationships and gay people have sex, where straight people have lives and gay people have ‘lifestyles.’ The thing is that gay people’s romantic lives, like straight people’s romantic lives, are made up of a wide range of feelings and activities and relationships.” —John Corvino

yourplayersaidwhat:

“D&D is great for your mental health.”

— My actual Doctor, in a checkup appointment.

we are starving

ttragician:

lesroisdumonde:

“oh my GOd there are TWO gay characters in this movie lets watch it”

“dude dude dude we have to see it it has a queer girl

“I heard this movie has non-sexualized female character”

“ok I know it only has one girl but she is written like an ACTUAL PERSON!!”

“THERE IS A TRANS CHARACTER”

“so its not canon but if you squint I think this character is asexual”

“and get this the gay character is actually not white

#we are desperate

(Source: czeppeli)

bestialcluster:

hope-and-haldol:

solarcat:

tfautobotsrollout:

ride-thewave:

she-a-mystic:

gothicincarnate:

sortableroseanimations:

sortableroseanimations:

whitewolfpharaoh:

datesanddamian:

thomasthetwinkengine:

blo:

psychic-sara:

Reblog for a miracle to happen tonight

BITCH I REBLOGGED THIS AT 4AM AND SOME FIT GUY FROM MY HOMETOWN SLID INTO MY DMS at 11PM LIKE GIRL HONESTLY iM

Can the miracle be that I actually fall asleep at a reasonable time

I’m starting to feel like that miracle is falling into a deep sleep and actually waking up rested. Bless this post.

A miracle?

I don’t care how big or small I want one

I would like and could use a small miracle

MY MIRACLE WAS FUCKING AMAZING AND YEAH IT WAS TONIGHT INSTEAD OF LAST NIGHT BUT STILL

IT WORKED, PLEASE DO THIS YOU LITERLALLY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE

It worked…I had a long convo with someone I missed.

I need a miracle

I would love a miracle

I would take a very small miracle. Just a little something nice.

Last time I reblogged this, I got my future service dog!

I’d like miracles for all of you ❤️ and I hope I get mine

Book of Bullshit

yourplayersaidwhat:

Me, creating my tiefling paladin: Wait, I have a request.
Me: Can I have a “Book of Bullshit” written in Infernal that basically says “This is bull. That is bull. *Everything* in an unjust world is bullshit, and I run on pure spite to fight my haters”?
DM:
Me: I want my Paladin to be the founder of the Church of the Exasperated, who found a forgotten goddess on her hermitage, and now these two salty bitches are out to tell people that they are being ridiculous and remind them that a hard head makes for a soft ass.
DM:
Me: It would count as a religious text, and I could consult it when dealing with particularly annoying people to bullshit them into compliance.
DM:
Me: If they read Infernal, maybe they could have a saving throw for persuasion?
Me: And yes, I would definitely tell people, without batting an eyelash, that I was reading my holy book to decide how best to cut a bitch.
Assistant DM: This is beautiful
Me: Oh good.
DM: Sure.
Me: Yay! Also, I may slap people with the very heavy, hardcover, waterproof book.
DM: We’ll see.
Me: Fair enough.

nonbeesphoric:

ive said it before and i’ll say it again but nonbinary doesnt always mean agender or unaligned. it just means not completely a man or a woman. theres so many different nonbinary genders and reducing it to just meaning Totally Genderless And Unaligned is completely ignoring the intricacies of nonbinary identity. replacing a rigid gender binary with a rigid gender trinary helps no one.

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